💓Happy Valentine's Day!💓 February's read was Smoke Gets in Your Eyes, by Caitlin Doughty. Coming up next for March's meeting is The 7.5 Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle, by Stuart Turton. We have a good handful of copies, but we'd like to remind our members to please be intentional about reading through the book club books and returning them to library in as timely a fashion as possible to help us be as efficient as we can in distributing the copies we are able to secure~ we appreciate your help! If you do not need a copy, and you haven't already let us know, would you please leave a comment below to update us? Thanks so much in advance!
While I have you, it's that time of year again to start getting your nominations in for next year's reading list! We'd like to ask that you turn your nominations into us on or before our March 11th book club meeting. You can email them to either Susan (susanhl@perhamlibrary.org), or myself (amandaschaefer@hotmail.com), or give us a call at the library (346-4892), or leave them in the comments below, or even leave them with us at the front desk! So many options!
In an effort to keep our final nomination ballots to a reasonable size, we are putting a limit of 5 nominations total for each of our members. Additionally, we are sticking with the same 5 dedicated categories this year of Young Adult, Memoir, Mystery, Minnesota Author and Classic~ however you do not need to nominate titles into these categories, but you will be required to vote for at least one book from each of these dedicated genres when the time comes. Sound good? Let us know if you have any questions below~ happy nominating!
Onward!
Caring for dead bodies of every color, shape,
and affliction, Caitlin soon becomes an intrepid explorer in the world
of the dead. She describes how she swept ashes from the machines (and
sometimes onto her clothes) and reveals the strange history of cremation
and undertaking, marveling at bizarre and wonderful funeral practices
from different cultures.
Her eye-opening, candid, and often
hilarious story is like going on a journey with your bravest friend to
the cemetery at midnight. She demystifies death, leading us behind the
black curtain of her unique profession. And she answers questions you
didn’t know you had: Can you catch a disease from a corpse? How many
dead bodies can you fit in a Dodge van? What exactly does a flaming
skull look like?
This is nothing like what we normally read, and it was a total success! (Man, we all really love it when a book we wouldn't pick for ourselves ends up being a winner.) Some of us weren't sure we liked Caitlin in the beginning~ she seemed a bit cheeky and flippant about what we feel is mostly a delicate and solemn subject, but by the end of the book, she grew on us. It was clear by books end that she was really after trying to make death less taboo, give the reader what felt like some updated information on what some of the end-of-life options are (and advocate for a few more ways to handle death and the dead), and to encourage us to preplan our final wishes, or at the very least, make our loved ones aware of them... preferably in writing.
We were glad we read it, we all learned something along the way. This book can't help but stir up personal stories of loss, and a good portion of our meeting was sharing those stories with the group. We are thankful that there are people in the world who find their fit working in the funeral industry in one form or fashion, and even more so that there are people like Doughty who want to try to make it a little less hands off~ with more options to choose from.
The few criticisms we could scrape together would be even though this was a shorter read, it still felt about 50 pages too long... but if you asked us where we'd trim it, we can't be sure. Some of us still aren't sure about Caitlin, we found her to be an intelligent misfit, but maybe a little dead inside.. we think we like her, but we probably wouldn't be friends. Lastly, some of the content was hard to read, but we could agree that was to be expected, given the title.
How did this book leave you? Let us know below! 👇
Did you really like Smoke Gets in Your Eyes? Fans of the book also enjoyed, Stiff, by Mary Roach, All the Living and the Dead, by Hayley Campbell, and The Anthropocene Reviewed, by John Green. All of these titles are available within the Viking Library System~ reserve your copy today!
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Would we recommend this to a friend to read? YES!
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recommend this to another book club for discussion? YES!
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